Become a Surrogate
Our Surrogates earn between $70,000 and $100,000+
At Same Love, we are deeply committed to safeguarding the health, safety, and well-being of everyone involved in a surrogacy journey, the baby, the intended parents, and the surrogate. Every decision we make is guided by care, integrity, and responsibility.
For most surrogates, compensation is not viewed as “extra spending money.” It is meaningful and often life-changing. Many use it intentionally and responsibly while investing in their children’s future, purchasing or improving a home, returning to school, paying off debt, or completing professional certifications. Surrogacy is both a profound act of generosity and an opportunity for personal and financial empowerment.
Your Journey, Their Dream, Our Commitment
At Same Love, we believe every surrogate deserves an experience that is supportive, personal, and truly special. With over 12 years of life-changing work and more than 800+ babies born through the care of our incredible surrogates, we are honored to guide women through this meaningful journey. Our team is made up of former surrogates, gay dads, and compassionate medical professionals who deeply understand what the process involves — and we lead with heart every step of the way.
You’ll receive one-on-one personalized support from a dedicated coordinator, who will be by your side from your first call through post partum. We also love to surprise our surrogates with care packages, in-person visits, and small tokens of appreciation to remind you how valued you are throughout your journey.
Our Clients Love Us
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My experience with Same Love was nothing less than amazing! Jenn H was an amazing coordinator, she made everything so easy and I will definitely be using them again for a second journey.
McKenzie McDowell
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Jenn is an amazing coordinator! She helped me through 2 journeys and I couldn't have asked for a better person.
Kyra Siegfried
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I've done 2 journeys with Same Love! I had such a great experience! They were helpful, kind, supportive, and encouraging! My coordinator Jen is just an absolute dream! Anything I needed she was there! Day or night for support or any questions I had! I would recommend Same Love to everyone! I couldn't have had a better experience!
KaylaLight
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I’ve done two journeys with Jenn H here at Dame Love Surrogacy. You hear stories about the bond you build with the parents, but what you don’t hear about is also the bond you build with your coordinator. Jenn has always been so responsive , informative, welcoming, understanding and supportive. I couldn’t imagine doing a journey with anyone else. So naturally, I’ll be coming back for a 3rd with Jenn 😊 I can’t give enough praise to Same Love Surrogacy and particularly, Jenn.
sarah nourse
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Words cannot explain how amazing Same Love Surrogacy is , providing an opportunity for families to expand ,and to give women a platform and opportunity to be surrogates for those families . My coordinator was Jenn H, and when I say the way she cares for her clients is amazing , she checked in on me throughout the entire process and even towards the end . I was very fortunate to be able to work with Same Love Surrogacy , as a surrogate , and I must say the immense support, organization, and strong communication , was definitely top tier - from the beginning of my journey , all the way to the end . If I could give them a million stars I would !
Jodyann Hunter
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I went with this agency per a referral. They were very helpful and communicative. I am planning a second journey with them!
Ashley Schultz
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I research for years before becoming a surrogate and it took me about 5 of those years to find the perfect fit. Many of the agencies I spoke with made me feel like a number but Jenn H with Same Love made me feel seen, valued, respected, appreciated, and supported. She’s an AMAZING intake coordinator. I have completed two journeys with her by my side and contemplating a third. She is always one step ahead and always there to help navigate any questions, concerns, or hiccups that may arise. Same Love made being a surrogate such an easy choice! I met strangers but truly gained family out of the process! If you are on the fence or even considering becoming a surrogate or IPs looking for a great agency I encourage you to reach out to Same Love! I’m absolutely positive you will not regret it!
Laura Hoeppner
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I only did one surrogacy journey and it was an amazing experience. My coordinator was fantastic and so caring. I experienced a traumatic life event in my personal life right after my successful transfer and Mary (my coordinator) was there for me, she checked in on me, offered her support, and truly cared about me as a person and not just a surrogate. After I delivered I experienced some postpartum depression and she was there for me again, the agency also provided some counseling that helped tremendously. I was given gifts from the agency to commemorate my journey; two beautiful necklaces with charms. If I were younger, I would consider another journey using Same Love Surrogacy.
Sarah Gadd
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I just finished my first journey as a surrogate with SLS. I had an excellent support team of 2 coordinators, Faith and Andrea. They were both absolutely lovely and there to answer all my questions and concerns. Whenever I wasn't sure about something or felt the health care coordination had gotten messy they helped me straighten things out right away.
I greatly appreciated the thorough physical and mental health and background checks, the transparency about what was expected every step of the way, and the questionnaires given to help match surrogates with intended parents based on health, geographical, and risk concerns. Read more...
Raquel Ely
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I was a gestational surrogate at SLS. They paired me with the greatest intended parents, always took care of any bumps or questions I had, talked me through my first hormone shot late in the evening, and it was just overall a great first experience for something that can be a little scary at first. I loved it 🤗
Hayley Barthold
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I was a surrogate and finished my journey with SLS in April. I don't have enough good things to say - my coordinator, Mary, was wonderful with communication such as answering each and every question I had (usually before I could even ask) and notifying me of all the resources available to me. I was brand new to the world of surrogacy and they made the entire process easy as well as provided things I wouldn't have thought an agency would provide like virtual support groups and counseling. I received little goodies throughout the process that made me feel appreciated and am so proud to not only have been a surrogate but to have been a surrogate for Same Love Surrogacy!
Hayley Brown
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I finished my journey with Same Love in March 2025 and now have a healthy, handsome little boy! I had a rough time with another agency before - wasted a year and a half and had three failed matches. Switching to Same Love was honestly the best decision I made. The team is amazing. Heath, my coordinator, truly knows this process inside and out. He got things done, kept me informed, and supported me every step of the way, even when unexpected things came up. He cares, and it shows. Mary, the surrogate coordinator, was also fantastic and helped me build a great relationship with my surrogate. Thank you to the whole team…my son is the biggest gift I could ever ask for.
Crillen Zhao
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I finished my first journey in November 2024 and Same Love surrogacy was amazing to work with. I was matched with the most amazing Intended parents. The process was easy and smooth start to finish.
My coordinator Andrea was always there to answer any questions I had and she routinely checked in on me. She was kind, compassionate and supportive throughout my whole journey. I always felt valued and respected. I couldn't have done it without all her help. This was a life changing journey that I will always cherish and Same Love made that possible. I highly recommend Same Love Surrogacy.
Britani Braninburg
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For years I have wanted to be a surrogate. I started out with an agency in San Diego that was horrible with communication and drug out the process for so long I ended up changing my mind.
After doing some research I came across SLS and knew it was the fit for me. Mary was my coordinator and she was on top of everything from beginning to end. I had always dreamed of being a surrogate but I never thought that my experience would exceed my expectations.
Sarah Lemoine
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I absolutely love this agency! Did my surrogacy here everything was amazing, my agent Jenn was truly the best! 10/10 agency!
Adriana Alba
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I recently finished my second surrogacy journey as a surrogate and decided to use an agency this time. After lots of research I decided to proceed with SLS and I am beyond thrilled I did! This was my 6th pregnancy/7th baby and this was by FAR my BEST pregnancy experience ever!! My agency support person, Andrea, was there for me every step of the way, they matched me with the most amazing family, walked me through all my questions and even months after delivering a beautiful healthy baby she still checks in and makes sure I’m doing ok!! I would 100% recommend this agency for anyone thinking of going the surrogacy route!!
michelle spears
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I did a journey with Same love and it was amazing! Andrea was awesome! They made it so easy. Everything was step by step. I loved the entire experience. I would hands down recommend Same Love if you are wanting to be a surrogate.
Alexandria Schnell
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I did a lot of research before picking Same Love Surrogacy as my agency with a surrogate journey. I love that the agency started on the foundation of wanting to help the lgbtq community for those that need help and support in starting a family. I only have positive things to say about my whole experience with the agency and in particular with my coordinator, Mary Magness. She was there for me with any questions that I had and made the whole process very smooth. They matched me with the best couple I could have ever asked for and we created a really great bond throughout the whole journey, and now extending afterwards. The surrogacy and my agent made the journey special with the focus on the process being all about love- love for others and a love for helping others. I am really proud of being a surrogate and helping 2 wonderful beings have their own children and I could not have done that without Same Love Surrogacy❤️
Colleen W
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I was a GC (gestational carrier) surrogate for SLS twice. I had previously worked with another agency, and done an independent journey beforehand, so I can say from my experience that they were a great agency to work with. Every one who works there has some connection with surrogacy. They are kind, knowledgeable, and I believe that they all truly care about everyone they work with. SLS is big on timely communication, clarity, understanding, and trying to make everything work as smoothly as possible for all parties involved. Highly recommend.
Mary Magness
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Thanks to Same Love Surrogacy I was able to bless a loving family. They were so helpful and was there every step of the way, any questions I had they were answered. They made the process so easy.
Brittnie Mckoy
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I just wrapped up my first journey ad a surrogate in November 2024. Every single person I encountered with Same Love was amazing. My coordinator, Lisa, is nothing short of fantastic- she is so kind, easy to work with, super supportive, literally any and every thing you’d want in a person guiding you through the process. They even arranged for another local coordinator to take me back to the airport after my medical clearance instead of me having to take an uber. I always felt like I was being considered and cared for. i was matched with two incredible people, and the entire journey from start to finish was so smooth, and I left with people I consider friends now. I recommend them enough!
Samantha Tyson
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I have done 3 journeys and 2 with same love! They make everything SO easy. Jenn H. is literally the best surrogate coordinator! I still talk to her eventho my journeys are both done! Really thinking about doing another one since she makes it so easy and enjoyable.
Keri Robey
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This is my second journey with Same Love Surrogacy, and they have provided Exceptional Support and Care throughout my Journeys. Monica is my coordinator, and I have had an amazing experience each time I've worked with her. From the very beginning the team has been incredibly supportive, compassionate, and professional. Monica has guided me and others I have referred, through every step of the process with patience and care, making my journey feel manageable and so joyful. Every referral I've shared with Same Love is happy with their care and guidance through they're journey. Read more...
Chanel Cee
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My journey with this agency has been nothing short of amazing! The staff was so accommodating and helpful towards my needs. My coordinator made the entire process so easy for me! I highly recommend this agency. Their professionalism was top notch and whenever I had an issue arise they fixed it!
Nathalie Olveda
Javonnie Zoller-Domingo
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For being a first time surrogate I can say that I have absolutely loved my journey so far. I’ve been working with Faith and she has been more than supportive and punctual with answers to any questions I may have and if anything is taking longer than usual she makes sure i know know that I haven’t been forgotten and they are still working on it. I would recommend this agency to any friend.
Brooklynn Holbrook
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I moved to same love surrogacy after my first surro baby was born! I’ve loved my coordinator (Faith 🙂 ) ready to start my next journey
Jessica Brumble
Thank you for considering the incredible gift of helping build a family through surrogacy. Please review the qualifications below to see if you meet the requirements to become a surrogate.
REQUIREMENTS
Basic Requirements to Become a Surrogate
- Previous Birth – You must have given birth to at least one child of your own whom you are currently raising.
- Healthy Body Mass Index (BMI) – Your BMI must be no higher than 34.
Click here to calculate your BMI. - Age Range – You must be between 21 and 41 years old. Note: If you’re over 38, you must have delivered a baby within the last five years and have medical clearance from your OB/GYN.
- Healthy Pregnancy History – You should have no history of major complications during previous pregnancies or deliveries.
- Reliable Transportation & Valid Driver’s License – You must have a valid driver’s license and access to a reliable vehicle for attending appointments.
- Healthy, Stable Lifestyle – No Smoking, No Alcohol or substance abuse
- Support Network – You have a good support network of family and/or close friends who affirm your decision to carry a child for another and who will provide emotional and physical support to you during your journey.
- Partner Support and Consent – If you are in a relationship, your partner must be supportive of your surrogacy and willing to undergo a medical screening (blood test) and/or background check, if requested.
STEP BY STEP
PROCESS

Application and Screening Process
Your journey begins with an online application and a personal interview to get to know you. We’ll also guide you through submitting medical records, completing background checks, and attending a psychological evaluation to ensure you’re ready for a safe and successful experience.

Matching Process
Our surrogacy matching process is designed to be thoughtful, personalized, and centered on alignment. Once a surrogate has successfully completed screening and is fully approved, we carefully present Intended Parent profiles that reflect shared values, expectations, and communication styles. When there is mutual interest, we coordinate a virtual match meeting so everyone can connect, ask questions, and ensure the partnership feels comfortable and natural. If both parties choose to move forward, we prepare for the medical phase. Our team supports you every step of the way to ensure the match is built on trust, transparency, and a strong foundation for a successful journey together.

Medical Screening
You’ll travel to the IVF clinic for a comprehensive medical evaluation. The fertility doctor will conduct tests to confirm that you are physically prepared for embryo transfer and pregnancy, with all travel arranged for you.

Legal Contracts
You’ll be provided with an experienced attorney (at no cost to you) who will help you review and sign your surrogacy contract. This legal agreement protects your rights, outlines responsibilities, and ensures all parties are fully informed and supported.

Cycle Preparation and Medications
You’ll begin taking medications prescribed by the IVF doctor to prepare your body for embryo transfer. Your Surrogate Coordinator will provide guidance and support throughout this phase to ensure you feel comfortable and confident.

Embryo Transfer
You’ll travel to the IVF clinic for the exciting embryo transfer procedure. This is a quick, painless process, and afterward, you’ll rest and follow simple post-transfer instructions while waiting for pregnancy confirmation.

Pregnancy and Support
Throughout your pregnancy, your Surrogate Coordinator and the intended parents will stay in close contact to offer encouragement and support. You’ll attend regular OB appointments, with all expenses covered, and we’ll ensure you feel cared for every step of the way.

Birth and Post-Delivery Support
When it’s time for delivery, your coordinator and the intended parents will help plan the birth experience. After delivery, you’ll continue receiving support from our team as you recover and transition back to your daily life, knowing you’ve helped create a family.
WHY CHOOSE SAME LOVE?
Same Love prides itself on helping connect the finest couples with caring and dedicated surrogates such as yourself. Our staff has the experience needed to help you get the most out of your surrogacy experience.
Financial assistance is provided to ensure that you are able to carry the baby to term in a stress-free comfortable manner. Our team goes the distance with you to ensure that you have the resources needed to enjoy the experience and journey. Speak with a member of our team today to get started!
Competitive Surrogate Benefits
At Same Love, we are proud to offer one of the industry’s most comprehensive surrogate compensation and benefits packages, with total benefits typically ranging from $70,000 to $100,000+.
Our surrogates receive generous base compensation along with valuable additional benefits, including pre-pregnancy and post-birth payments, childcare assistance, housekeeping support, paid travel, lost wages, wellness benefits, and comprehensive medical and emotional support throughout their journey.
We believe every surrogate deserves to feel respected, supported, and appreciated. That’s why we provide personalized guidance, exceptional care, and meaningful benefits designed to protect your well-being and recognize the incredible gift you are giving. From your initial screening through delivery and postpartum recovery, our experienced team will be by your side every step of the way.
Surrogacy Compensation
At Same Love, we believe surrogates should be fairly compensated and fully supported throughout their journey. The women who choose to become surrogates do so because they want to help others experience the joy of parenthood while also creating opportunities for their own families.
Many of our surrogates use their compensation to pay off debt, save for their children’s future, return to school, purchase a home, or create greater financial stability for their families.
Our surrogate compensation and benefits packages typically range from $70,000 to $100,000+, depending on experience, location, insurance, and individual circumstances. Repeat surrogates may qualify for higher compensation.
Your dedicated surrogate coordinator will provide a detailed breakdown of compensation and benefits during the screening process.
Benefits May Include:
- Generous base compensation
- Monthly allowances
- Pre-pregnancy and post-birth payments
- Reimbursement for local travel to appointments, screenings, and fertility procedures
- Maternity clothing allowance
- Health and life insurance support
- Medical co-pay reimbursement
- Childcare assistance
- Housekeeping assistance
- Lost wages and bed rest compensation
- Breast milk pumping compensation
- Psychological support services
- Paid travel and accommodations when required
- All surrogacy-related legal fees covered
Most importantly, surrogacy is about so much more than compensation. As a surrogate, you are helping someone achieve a lifelong dream of becoming a parent. You are creating a family, changing lives, and making an impact that will be remembered forever. The emotional rewards can be just as meaningful as the financial benefits.
Pre-Qualify to Become a part of the Same Love Family
At Same Love, we are honored to work with compassionate, healthy women who want to help others experience the joy of parenthood. The first step in your journey is to pre-qualify by meeting a few basic health and lifestyle criteria.
Our caring team will guide you through this simple process to ensure surrogacy is a safe and positive fit for you. If you’re ready to make a lasting difference, we would love to welcome you to our Same Love Family.
WHY BECOME A SURROGATE?
Give the gift of parenthood to another couple
So many loving couples have yet to experience holding their own child. It is an amazing gift that you can give. Becoming a surrogate can be a fulfilling experience as you watch first-time parents looking into their child’s eyes for the first time.
The extra $70k-$100k+ can help your family
As a surrogate you may be able to earn $75,000 or more. That can go a long way to providing additional income for your family.
Surrogate Referral Program
Our Surrogate Referral Program is our way of rewarding you for helping grow our incredible community. Earn $2,500 for each qualified surrogate referral who successfully reaches legal clearance in her own surrogacy match. For those who refer more, the reward grows — referrals six and beyond are paid at $5,000 each. It’s a meaningful way to support women who are considering surrogacy while earning generous compensation for sharing your experience and trust in our agency. Contact us for full program details and eligibility guidelines.